Before I answer that question, let me ask you a couple of questions of my own….

When was the last time you thought, “Wow, my life is so peaceful and I feel great about myself!”, or when was the last time you did something that was TRULY just for you?

Ummm, yeah. Sadly, most of us can’t remember.  Or maybe you even chuckled at those questions because it has been so long that it doesn’t even count anymore!

You deserve to do something fun and adventurous, that will make you feel like you would would never normally feel, and maybe even make you look a way that you’ve never looked before! Doing a boudoir session can be amazing and memorable gift for someone you love, but believe it or not, it ends up being a gift for you, too!

 

Stop, I know exactly what you are going to say before you even say it…

I can’t do a Boudoir session until I lose some weight

My babies wrecked my body

I am just not photogenic enough for this

I don’t have the time or money to spend on myself

I am not bold enough, confident enough, pretty enough, strong enough, fit enough…

 

Maybe you can come up with a hundred or more excuses for why you shouldn’t do a boudoir session, so I am going to take a few minutes and give you just a few reasons why it WOULD BE TOTALLY WORTH EVERY SECOND AND EVERY CENT!

 

 

1) You deserve it…bottom line

You know that feeling when you go to the salon and you get a really great haircut, or you find the most incredibly fitting jeans on the sale rack of your favorite store, or finally reach a benchmark in your fitness regimen? You know what I’m talking about- the incredible feeling that your day, week, or even month have been made? That feeling where everything seems a little extra bright and shiny, and you feel accomplished, satisfied, lighter, stronger, and full of glittery joy? I think as women, we just don’t give ourselves the room to feel that way often enough. So for a moment, play along with me: Close your eyes and imagine having the whole morning to yourself, stress free and void of responsibility. The only item on your agenda is to relax and feel empowered. You walk into a room where sweet smelling oils are being diffused, soft music is playing, and a delicious mimosa (or 3) is waiting for you! You sit down and feel immediately refreshed and pampered as your makeup is perfected and your hair is styled. Once you are feeling your best, you slip into some pretty lingerie that makes you feel incredible and on top of the world, and feel encouraged as you strut your stuff.  Before you know it, you are feeling a little sexier, more confident, and absolutely amazing! When you are through, you sit down in the massage chair and feel the stress melt away as you receive a professional massage. This is the power of what an amazing boudoir session can offer!

2) Boudoir photography makes a great gift

Just imagine the look on his face when he first lays his eyes on the beautiful images of you donning a sexy little number! You will literally have to pick his jaw up off the floor! It will be incredible and totally worth it just to see the reaction on his face, but more importantly, it will serve as a constant reminder to both of your of just how GORGEOUS you truly are.

3) Doing adventurous things makes you stronger

Whether you love your identity you have found in your life, or you feel like you are defined by your roles, it is important to make time to step outside your comfort zone. Nothing about getting into your skivvies and having someone photograph you feels natural, and that’s what makes it so much fun! A boudoir session is a safe place for you to step outside of your everyday roles and bring out the sexy, fun, adventurous side that can often get buried! Life is crazy, and you deserve a day of confidence boosting pampering, where you will walk away feeling a renewed sense of joy, energy, and self-esteem.

4) You are BEAUTIFUL

We don’t always see ourselves the way that others do, especially those we love! We often see the imperfections and flaws when we look in the mirror, but please let me assure you…you are your own worst critic! The stretch marks, big feet, or thick thighs do not matter to those that love you the most! You are beautiful just the way you are, right in this very moment. So it is time to capture it!

 

I only hope that the images I capture allow you to see evidence of value and beauty in yourself and in your relationships- the things that matter most! So let’s do this thing!!

XO,

 

And here are the details of the next McCoy Artwork & Photography Boudoir Experience!

FAQ

How can I be sure I am the right “fit” for boudoir?

No matter what confidence level, size, age, or body type, we ALL have different aspects of ourselves that we are self-conscious about.  It is normal to feel nervous and worry about not having experience in front of a camera, but I can promise you that by the end of your experience, owning who you are and being authentically you is the best feature you can have… for your boudoir pictures, and in life!

What in the world should I wear?

Everyone has their own individual style, so when you’re deciding what to wear to your boudoir photography session, ask yourself what makes you feel beautiful and sexy! Your goal is to choose items that flatter your figure, but also makes you feel comfortable, unquestionably beautiful and relaxed! You can use items that you already have, or shop with your significant other for something new and fun! Fancy lingerie is always fun, but don’t think you need to spend a bunch of money on a new wardrobe for your session! Think of things that are sexy and more subtle. Maybe something as simple as a t-shirt and panties is your style? Maybe an off-shoulder sweater coupled with boyshorts? Or a strategically-placed scarf paired with your favorite curve hugging jeans. Do you prefer glam heels, or are you a more of a bare-footed and casual woman? Whatever your style, choose the wardrobe that makes your confidence and your inner light shine! And if nude is your go-to confidence booster, then bring it on!

Should I bring props or accessories?

Once you’ve laid out the basic elements for a couple of outfits, it’s time to expand on that style and think about mood you may want to convey. Think about how great earrings, a fresh mani-pedi, a strand of pearls, fishnets, or an item of clothing item from your significant other can add style and creative flair, and give you something to play with and touch during your session. Great details can also provide texture and help provide focus in your photographs. No matter what you bring along, I will be ready to capture your personality and style is whatever form it shows up in! Bottom line, the most important thing to bring your session a sense of adventure and readiness to have fun!

Anything else to consider when planning my session?

If you’re planning your boudoir session as a romantic gift for a significant other, you’ll probably want to consider their taste and what they love. Bringing something meaningful to you or your significant other can serve as a great way to personalize your photos! For instance, it might be some lingerie that you wore on your wedding night, or a necklace that he surprised you with on a special occasion. Also consider the things you love doing together! Maybe you love to go camping together: bring along your hiking boots and a cute flannel to wear. Take some time to think about those parts of your relationship that only you two share and make you, YOU! How can you work it in to your boudoir session? Doing this work ahead of time will make such an intimate gift even more personal and sentimental!

What else should I do to prepare?

Once you book, I will send along my Boudoir Experience Guide, which will outline how to prepare beginning 5 days before your session! Then, you sit back, relax, and prepare yourself for an amazing time and some pretty fantastic keepsake images!

Can I book with a friend?

I would definitely recommend doing boudoir sessions with a few girlfriends! Having a cheerleader there to help boost your morale, and taking turns sipping mimosas and getting in front of the camera! Why not turn the whole thing into a really great day with your girlfriends, in addition to being a pretty kick-butt gift! Of course, you can still maintain privacy while you have a friend along for the ride, if that is more your style!